The art of pleasuring is quite complex, but there are some basic ideas that can help you a lot. One concept that is quite useful is intention and attention. Intention begins before touching starts. It’s important to check in with yourself, to ask yourself what your intention really is. Is your touch about giving orContinue reading “The Art of Pleasuring: Intention”
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Orgasm – A Glimpse of Enlightenment
One of my first spiritual teachers, a channeled spirit named Dr. Peebles, used to say “Orgasm is a glimpse of enlightenment.” He explained that the moment of orgasm contains the essence of enlightenment — the ecstatic dissolve into a sense of oneness. And furthermore, it is the most accessible glimpse of enlightenment for most people.Continue reading “Orgasm – A Glimpse of Enlightenment”
Make Some Sound!
Did you know one of the best ways to get your sexual energy moving and flowing is to make sound? There are energy centers in the body, called chakras in the yogic and Tantric teachings. There are seven main chakras along the spine, and each one has a different kind of energy associated with it.Continue reading “Make Some Sound!”
Stolen Kisses
“I always have to steal my kisses from you.” This was a line in a pop song I was exposed to frequently a few years ago. I always wished I could have a conversation with the person who wrote the song. I could share a few things that might have helped them. First, it mightContinue reading “Stolen Kisses”
Full Moon Wildness
There is something special about the energy of a full moon. It brings out the wild side. It is bright and glowing, yet none of the mundane of daytime is there. It’s a time that encourages experimentation. It’s a time when it’s okay to get a little wild. Or a lot! I feel the goddessContinue reading “Full Moon Wildness”
Naked to the Soul
This month’s new moon, on November 4 is in Scorpio. Not only that, it is very close to Mars which rules Scorpio. It’s an excellent time to bring some Scorpio energy into your relationship. The first word I think of when I think of Scorpio is “intense’. Scorpio thrives upon intensity. Surface interactions just don’tContinue reading “Naked to the Soul”
Full Moon Sex Magic
The full moon this month, on October 20, 2021, has a complex configuration of very potent planets. Without going into too much technical detail, I’ll just say that there is a possibility of either a strong action for more equity and justice, or for global strife and conflict. It’s up to us how we expressContinue reading “Full Moon Sex Magic”
Harmony
The new moon on Wednesday is in Libra. This next lunar month is a good time to bring Libra energy into your relationship. Libra is a sign that is quite immersed in relationships. They are a high priority for someone who is running a a lot of Libra energy. So putting a lot of attentionContinue reading “Harmony”
Stories of Sexual Healing
One of the things I love about my work is watching changes in my clients over time. Here are some examples of the way people have blossomed. There was a woman who had history of childhood sexual abuse, and had been shut down sexually for two years with no response or interest. Our work withContinue reading “Stories of Sexual Healing”
Service
Monday’s new moon is in Virgo. Virgo is not considered one of the sexier signs. It is usually noted for its analytical abilities and attention to detail. However, there is one aspect of Virgo that I think really can enhance a relationship, and that is the attitude of service. What would it be like forContinue reading “Service”
Satya Lila 