A Guide to Men Who Want to Truly Make Love to a Women

(Things you might not know) The fact that you are reading this speaks volumes. I appreciate your desire to make love to a woman with more adeptness. You are a treasure indeed! There’s a very important point to remember when considering how to approach a woman. It’s something that you might not have considered before.Continue reading “A Guide to Men Who Want to Truly Make Love to a Women”

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Here’s wishing you a happy Valentine’s Day! I must confess, it’s not my favorite holiday. There is too much weight of expectations loaded onto one day. It’s a day when you “should” be happy, you “should” have sex, you “should” receive gifts from a beloved. It’s a miracle that anyone actually does that, what withContinue reading “Happy Valentine’s Day!”

Connection Ceremony

This pic is one my partner John took of me as we began our regular weekly connection ceremony. These are times we set aside to commune with each other and the divine. It’s the highlight of my week! And what keeps us glued together. Deep intimacy and fun certainly make a relationship flow more easily!Continue reading “Connection Ceremony”

Third-Purpose Relationship

My third eye is shining! This pic is from an afternoon John and I spent together recently. We had just been in a deep meditation, together connecting with the geometries of light that surround our bodies and are the gateway to the ultimate oneness of love and light. This was while taking a walk afterward.Continue reading “Third-Purpose Relationship”

It Hasn’t Always Been Easy

If you’ve been seeing my posts then you know that I’m crazy in love with my partner John. And even though we are blissfully happy with each other, and even though I’ve taught sacred sexuality for 30 years, with around 15,000 client sessions, it hasn’t always been easy. There was a time a few yearsContinue reading “It Hasn’t Always Been Easy”

What If It Could Be Fun?

What if it could be fun? Luscious Loving doesn’t have to be a lot of work. In fact, it’s better if it’s fun. Things flow more easily, and we’re way more motivated by fun than by doing “work”. This is a message I got from someone who attended my last Luscious Loving intro evening withContinue reading “What If It Could Be Fun?”

Sex Is More Than Physical

Sex is so much more than physical! And it’s a good thing that it is! If it was nothing more than rubbing body parts together, it would get boring pretty quickly. There are only so many ways that you can make it different — different positions, different partners. It still becomes limited. But when youContinue reading “Sex Is More Than Physical”

Every Couple Has the Potential

Every couple has the potential to have a relationship that brings them joy. A relationship where both partners nurture and value their connection. Intimacy, both emotional and physical, is actively sought. I’ve worked with couples with all kinds of stumbling blocks that seem to prevent them from being able to have this for themselves: IfContinue reading “Every Couple Has the Potential”

Lovemaking as an Art Form

Lovemaking, when it’s done consciously, is an exquisite art form. The endless variation in the play of light and firm, slow and fast, stillness and wildness makes each time you connect with your beloved special and different. How do you learn this art? If we lived in a different world, a different time, one whereContinue reading “Lovemaking as an Art Form”

When the Magic Doesn’t Work

Generally, the connection between my beloved partner John and me flows easily and smoothly. I feel gratitude for the work that we’ve both done to be able to get to this place. But that doesn’t mean it always is easy. Just a little while ago, we were in one of our regular connection ceremonies. TheseContinue reading “When the Magic Doesn’t Work”