Active and Receptive

One of the things I find really interesting in sexual energetics is the difference between masculine and feminine energies. This isn’t necessarily connected to whether whether you have a male or female body. I think of masculine as the active principle and feminine as the receptive principle. It’s possible to run either of those energiesContinue reading “Active and Receptive”

A Man’s Perspective

I write a lot about my experience of sexual energetics. Today I asked my partner John Thompson what he experiences as I am having energetic openings. Here’s what he said. “When I’m making love to you I focus upon a certain part of your body — your breast, your neck, or wherever.” I make loveContinue reading “A Man’s Perspective”

Energetics of Ecstasy

Paying attention to the energetics of sexuality can lead to an experience of sublime opening and dissolving into ecstasy. I had a direct experience of that the other day with my beloved partner John Thompson. Let me tell you little about it so you can get an idea of what is possible. We were havingContinue reading “Energetics of Ecstasy”

Appreciation for the Courageous

I want to take a moment to appreciate the wonderful people who are or have been my clients. Many of them have struggled with wounding in their sexuality — perhaps sexual abuse or being indoctrinated with sexual shame. This kind of history makes a big impact upon their ability to have a sexual relationship thatContinue reading “Appreciation for the Courageous”

Love is Growing

“She rocked my world last night,” he said dreamily. “Oh, my goodness! Oh, my goodness!” It was the last session of a series with a couple who were working to bring back their sexual energy. They were both glowing. This is why I do this work. It is so rewarding to see the changes inContinue reading “Love is Growing”

Sexual Energetics

Do you know about the energetics of sexuality? Understanding sexual energetics is really important in keeping a sexual relationship alive and interesting. If you engage with the energetics of sexuality, sex becomes far more than only physical. The physical can get repetitive and boring. The energetics are infinitely fascinating. You can imagine your body havingContinue reading “Sexual Energetics”

Pleasure: A Tool for Manifesting

Pleasure is a powerful tool in manifesting what you want in your life. Here’s an example: On Monday, I was preparing for the intro evening for my upcoming group, “Erotic Divine Feminine”. I spent the morning creating an outline for the evening, and began thinking about what I wanted to say. I didn’t finish, however,Continue reading “Pleasure: A Tool for Manifesting”

Orgasm – A Glimpse of Enlightenment

One of my first spiritual teachers, a channeled spirit named Dr. Peebles, used to say “Orgasm is a glimpse of enlightenment.” He explained that the moment of orgasm contains the essence of enlightenment — the ecstatic dissolve into a sense of oneness. And furthermore, it is the most accessible glimpse of enlightenment for most people.Continue reading “Orgasm – A Glimpse of Enlightenment”

Make Some Sound!

Did you know one of the best ways to get your sexual energy moving and flowing is to make sound? There are energy centers in the body, called chakras in the yogic and Tantric teachings. There are seven main chakras along the spine, and each one has a different kind of energy associated with it.Continue reading “Make Some Sound!”

Full Moon Wildness

There is something special about the energy of a full moon. It brings out the wild side. It is bright and glowing, yet none of the mundane of daytime is there. It’s a time that encourages experimentation. It’s a time when it’s okay to get a little wild. Or a lot! I feel the goddessContinue reading “Full Moon Wildness”