Active and Receptive

One of the things I find really interesting in sexual energetics is the difference between masculine and feminine energies. This isn’t necessarily connected to whether whether you have a male or female body. I think of masculine as the active principle and feminine as the receptive principle. It’s possible to run either of those energiesContinue reading “Active and Receptive”

A Man’s Perspective

I write a lot about my experience of sexual energetics. Today I asked my partner John Thompson what he experiences as I am having energetic openings. Here’s what he said. “When I’m making love to you I focus upon a certain part of your body — your breast, your neck, or wherever.” I make loveContinue reading “A Man’s Perspective”

Energetics of Ecstasy

Paying attention to the energetics of sexuality can lead to an experience of sublime opening and dissolving into ecstasy. I had a direct experience of that the other day with my beloved partner John Thompson. Let me tell you little about it so you can get an idea of what is possible. We were havingContinue reading “Energetics of Ecstasy”

Appreciation for the Courageous

I want to take a moment to appreciate the wonderful people who are or have been my clients. Many of them have struggled with wounding in their sexuality — perhaps sexual abuse or being indoctrinated with sexual shame. This kind of history makes a big impact upon their ability to have a sexual relationship thatContinue reading “Appreciation for the Courageous”

Love is Growing

“She rocked my world last night,” he said dreamily. “Oh, my goodness! Oh, my goodness!” It was the last session of a series with a couple who were working to bring back their sexual energy. They were both glowing. This is why I do this work. It is so rewarding to see the changes inContinue reading “Love is Growing”

Sexual Energetics

Do you know about the energetics of sexuality? Understanding sexual energetics is really important in keeping a sexual relationship alive and interesting. If you engage with the energetics of sexuality, sex becomes far more than only physical. The physical can get repetitive and boring. The energetics are infinitely fascinating. You can imagine your body havingContinue reading “Sexual Energetics”

Breathe into Deeper Pleasure

Take a nice deep breath. Feel your chest and belly expand. Exhale with a sigh. Do that again, and notice how different you feel already. The breath is one of the most powerful tools you have — and you always have it with you! Imagine applying this to lovemaking. Most people approach lovemaking with tensionContinue reading “Breathe into Deeper Pleasure”

Erotic Energy is Like Rocket Fuel

Erotic energy is like rocket fuel. You know how a rocket is propelled upward by fire at its base? It’s a very good metaphor for how the erotic energy can be used. You can use your fire, the sexual energy that starts in your pelvis, to move that energy up your spine, activating whatever youContinue reading “Erotic Energy is Like Rocket Fuel”

The Fruits of Pleasure

Pleasure is an incredible tool for manifesting. This past weekend was a great example of that. I took some time off for my birthday, and went to Ashland, Oregon with my sweetheart John to visit my dear friend Sabina. We spent some lovely time together, hiking in the Southern Oregon forest, going to a musicContinue reading “The Fruits of Pleasure”

Pleasure: A Tool for Manifesting

Pleasure is a powerful tool in manifesting what you want in your life. Here’s an example: On Monday, I was preparing for the intro evening for my upcoming group, “Erotic Divine Feminine”. I spent the morning creating an outline for the evening, and began thinking about what I wanted to say. I didn’t finish, however,Continue reading “Pleasure: A Tool for Manifesting”