Energetics of Ecstasy

Paying attention to the energetics of sexuality can lead to an experience of sublime opening and dissolving into ecstasy. I had a direct experience of that the other day with my beloved partner John Thompson. Let me tell you little about it so you can get an idea of what is possible. We were havingContinue reading “Energetics of Ecstasy”

Appreciation for the Courageous

I want to take a moment to appreciate the wonderful people who are or have been my clients. Many of them have struggled with wounding in their sexuality — perhaps sexual abuse or being indoctrinated with sexual shame. This kind of history makes a big impact upon their ability to have a sexual relationship thatContinue reading “Appreciation for the Courageous”

Sharpening Appreciation

A couple of weeks ago, we had two fires only a few miles from my beautiful land in the Sierra Nevada mountains of northern California. This was the closest that fire had ever been to us. We watched nervously as it crept closer towards us each day, wondering if we would have to evacuate, wonderingContinue reading “Sharpening Appreciation”

Love is Growing

“She rocked my world last night,” he said dreamily. “Oh, my goodness! Oh, my goodness!” It was the last session of a series with a couple who were working to bring back their sexual energy. They were both glowing. This is why I do this work. It is so rewarding to see the changes inContinue reading “Love is Growing”

Sexual Energetics

Do you know about the energetics of sexuality? Understanding sexual energetics is really important in keeping a sexual relationship alive and interesting. If you engage with the energetics of sexuality, sex becomes far more than only physical. The physical can get repetitive and boring. The energetics are infinitely fascinating. You can imagine your body havingContinue reading “Sexual Energetics”

Breathe into Deeper Pleasure

Take a nice deep breath. Feel your chest and belly expand. Exhale with a sigh. Do that again, and notice how different you feel already. The breath is one of the most powerful tools you have — and you always have it with you! Imagine applying this to lovemaking. Most people approach lovemaking with tensionContinue reading “Breathe into Deeper Pleasure”