One of the things I find really interesting in sexual energetics is the difference between masculine and feminine energies. This isn’t necessarily connected to whether whether you have a male or female body. I think of masculine as the active principle and feminine as the receptive principle. It’s possible to run either of those energiesContinue reading “Active and Receptive”
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Appreciation for the Courageous
I want to take a moment to appreciate the wonderful people who are or have been my clients. Many of them have struggled with wounding in their sexuality — perhaps sexual abuse or being indoctrinated with sexual shame. This kind of history makes a big impact upon their ability to have a sexual relationship thatContinue reading “Appreciation for the Courageous”
Forgiveness
You may have heard people say that forgiveness is not for the other person but for yourself. I got to see this in action a little while ago, as I worked with a client in a daylong intensive. My client came to me in distress because his sister wanted to end their relationship. He hadContinue reading “Forgiveness”
The Power of Love
I recently did a day-long intensive with a man who had been experiencing a deep rift with his brother. Originally he wanted to do this day with his brother, but his brother refused, so he came alone to work on his own issues. He arrived full of pain and righteous anger. His physical body wasContinue reading “The Power of Love”
Love is Growing
“She rocked my world last night,” he said dreamily. “Oh, my goodness! Oh, my goodness!” It was the last session of a series with a couple who were working to bring back their sexual energy. They were both glowing. This is why I do this work. It is so rewarding to see the changes inContinue reading “Love is Growing”
Sexual Energetics
Do you know about the energetics of sexuality? Understanding sexual energetics is really important in keeping a sexual relationship alive and interesting. If you engage with the energetics of sexuality, sex becomes far more than only physical. The physical can get repetitive and boring. The energetics are infinitely fascinating. You can imagine your body havingContinue reading “Sexual Energetics”
Naked to the Soul
This month’s new moon, on November 4 is in Scorpio. Not only that, it is very close to Mars which rules Scorpio. It’s an excellent time to bring some Scorpio energy into your relationship. The first word I think of when I think of Scorpio is “intense’. Scorpio thrives upon intensity. Surface interactions just don’tContinue reading “Naked to the Soul”
Harmony
The new moon on Wednesday is in Libra. This next lunar month is a good time to bring Libra energy into your relationship. Libra is a sign that is quite immersed in relationships. They are a high priority for someone who is running a a lot of Libra energy. So putting a lot of attentionContinue reading “Harmony”
Service
Monday’s new moon is in Virgo. Virgo is not considered one of the sexier signs. It is usually noted for its analytical abilities and attention to detail. However, there is one aspect of Virgo that I think really can enhance a relationship, and that is the attitude of service. What would it be like forContinue reading “Service”
How to Make Love to a Sensitive Woman
Making love to a sensitive woman can be a tricky matter. It can be the most exquisite pleasure, or it can be a source of disconnection if things don’t align well. I know, because I’m a sensitive woman. So I’ve learned a lot about this that I’d like to share with you. Probably the mostContinue reading “How to Make Love to a Sensitive Woman”
Satya Lila 