Appreciation for the Courageous

I want to take a moment to appreciate the wonderful people who are or have been my clients. Many of them have struggled with wounding in their sexuality — perhaps sexual abuse or being indoctrinated with sexual shame. This kind of history makes a big impact upon their ability to have a sexual relationship thatContinue reading “Appreciation for the Courageous”

Love is Growing

“She rocked my world last night,” he said dreamily. “Oh, my goodness! Oh, my goodness!” It was the last session of a series with a couple who were working to bring back their sexual energy. They were both glowing. This is why I do this work. It is so rewarding to see the changes inContinue reading “Love is Growing”

Sexual Energetics

Do you know about the energetics of sexuality? Understanding sexual energetics is really important in keeping a sexual relationship alive and interesting. If you engage with the energetics of sexuality, sex becomes far more than only physical. The physical can get repetitive and boring. The energetics are infinitely fascinating. You can imagine your body havingContinue reading “Sexual Energetics”

Breathe into Deeper Pleasure

Take a nice deep breath. Feel your chest and belly expand. Exhale with a sigh. Do that again, and notice how different you feel already. The breath is one of the most powerful tools you have — and you always have it with you! Imagine applying this to lovemaking. Most people approach lovemaking with tensionContinue reading “Breathe into Deeper Pleasure”

The Fruits of Pleasure

Pleasure is an incredible tool for manifesting. This past weekend was a great example of that. I took some time off for my birthday, and went to Ashland, Oregon with my sweetheart John to visit my dear friend Sabina. We spent some lovely time together, hiking in the Southern Oregon forest, going to a musicContinue reading “The Fruits of Pleasure”

Letting Emotions Flow

Today is the new moon in Cancer. How does Cancer energy enhance a relationship? Cancer is a water sign, ruled by the moon. It is all about emotions — the most emotional sign of the zodiac. Emotions are hugely important in an intimate connection. When you share your emotions, you open the door to yourContinue reading “Letting Emotions Flow”