One of the things I love about my work is watching changes in my clients over time. Here are some examples of the way people have blossomed.
There was a woman who had history of childhood sexual abuse, and had been shut down sexually for two years with no response or interest. Our work with boundaries allowed her to begin to say no when she needed. From there, she began to be able to say yes and now she enjoys her sexuality deeply.
One man was very intellectual and scientifically oriented when he started to work with me. He challenged a lot of the “woo-woo” teachings about energy. His questions, which were sometimes a bit aggressive, were met lovingly and with acceptance. Over time he began to feel energy in his body himself, and now he enjoys extended orgasm with or without ejaculation, and talks about the amazing waves of energy in his body. He is also much more warm and loving in his interactions with people.
Then there is the woman who, when she first came to see me, was not very comfortable in expressing her femininity. She felt more at home in masculine energy. While there is nothing inherently wrong with that, for her it felt false. It was a choice based on fear rather than a true preference. Now she has completely transformed. One way that manifests is by wearing flowing beautiful clothing that expresses her sensuality. Often when I look at her I see the goddess in her expressing her divine feminine nature.
One woman came to me after the break up of a 20-year marriage. All she needed was a little permission and validation, and she soon began to express her energy is beautiful and exuberant ways. She is stunning in who she is, and she is realizing that more and more all the time.
One man was a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, which had left him with a paralyzing fear whenever his sexual energy started to rise. He would immediately and involuntarily tense his muscles and shut it down. This was very frustrating to him. Slowly, over time, his body began to realize that he was safe when sexual energy was present. Now he is beginning to be more able to feel his sexual energy fully without stopping it. The small changes are adding up to a big transformation.
It is so gratifying to watch these, and others, as they grow and expand. And in the process I fall in love with each and every one, in love with their magnificent spirits.