I write a lot about my experience of sexual energetics. Today I asked my partner John Thompson what he experiences as I am having energetic openings. Here’s what he said.
“When I’m making love to you I focus upon a certain part of your body — your breast, your neck, or wherever.” I make love to that part. I admire and adore it. You respond really positively. You get excited and go into a blissful state as you experience me making love to your body.
“When you get excited, I get excited by what I’m causing to happen in you. It makes me want to express even more love towards your body.
“It’s like playing an instrument. I have to know when you’ve had enough stimulation on a certain part of your body. A crescendo happens, like a mini-orgasm in that area. I can sense the energy waning and I back off and move to someplace else.
“It is important to have the orientation of giving pleasure rather than trying to take it. Taking is not coming from love. Giving is considering the other person with love from the heart.”