Do you know about the energetics of sexuality?
Understanding sexual energetics is really important in keeping a sexual relationship alive and interesting. If you engage with the energetics of sexuality, sex becomes far more than only physical. The physical can get repetitive and boring. The energetics are infinitely fascinating.
You can imagine your body having channels or pathways of energy inside it. The sexual energy moves through these pathways like light flowing through a fiber optic channel. As it moves through the pathways, it lights up your whole body. As your body lights up, pleasure spreads all throughout your body. You feel tingly and awakened.
A common mistake that people make when they first start playing with this concept is trying to “do it right.” That can get in the way of the energy moving. You may want to set aside some times that are clearly for practice so that the learning process doesn’t detract from the connection. I believe that the connection is the most important part.
To get started with this, you can imagine a channel that runs from your perineum up to the top of your head along your spine. Build the energy in your pelvis through pleasuring yourself or with a partner. While doing this, take a breath and imagine that pleasure energy moving up the channel in the form of light. Notice how the rest of your body feels when you do that.
There are many ways to play with this concept of sexual energetics. If you’d like to learn more, let me offer you a free Sexual Communion Gateway Session.