Delight!

A few months ago, on a call with my two mastermind buddies, Leanne Aho and Kati Bissonnette, I started talking about wanting to create a group where I can share the light that has grown inside of me. That instant, the sun came around to my office window, and I was suffused in golden light! This is a picture Kati snapped. (Thank you to both Kati and Leanne for so much support!)

It’s pleasurable to report that magical moments like that are far from rare. The more I surrender to the divine, the more I am in the flow. Life is so much easier this way. I am constantly in delight.

That’s why I named my new group “Delight”! I want to share what has worked for me and many of my private clients with you, so you can be in delight too! The subtitle, “Journey into the Shimmering Emptiness” describes the destination. It’s a “place” I have visited many times, and it is exquisite. You can experience this too!

I invite you to a free evening on March 17 to check out what I’m talking about. Click here for details.

And remember, “Da Light” is “Delight”.

Delight: Journey into the Shimmering Emptiness

Are you a conscious explorer of spirituality? Are you looking for a path to delight that is easy, rapid and peaceful? Would you like an assist from someone who has already gone into light body enlightenment and can hold a template for you until you can hold it for yourself? This accelerates your growth considerably.

For the last 12 years, I have worked with a channeled being named Sohra, who has completed the process of light body enlightenment and is guiding a small group of us towards that enlightenment. Through those years I have come to experience, with more and more capability, what can be best described as a sense of oneness, serenity and bliss.

Now I am entering a new phase of my work with her. For the last few months, I have been working in alignment with Sohra during private sessions. I conduct the session, and she is present to work with the energies of the people I am with. I am now ready to do this in a group setting, with an online group called Delight: Journey into the Shimmering Emptiness.

If you are looking for:

  • A deep sense of peace, regardless of external circumstances
  • A bubbling well of inner joy
  • An inner spark of light
  • A visceral understanding of how the body relates to Source energy through the geometries of light
  • An unshakable connection with Source

then this group is for you!

Free intro evening March 17. Group begins April 14.

Click this link to find out more.

And remember, “Da Light” is Delight!

Peanut Butter and Gratitude

I had a really hard week last week. I was dealing with a lot of fatigue (a by-product of Parkinson’s Disease), and I had no energy. I had lots of stuff I wanted to do, but I kept having to cancel things that I was really looking forward to. It got really depressing, and I was having a hard time holding positive thoughts. I had a really busy day scheduled yesterday, and I didn’t think I had enough energy to get through it.

You know what turned it around? Peanut butter — and love.

I was making breakfast, spreading peanut butter on toast. My regular breakfast, which I absolutely love. Somehow I interrupted the flow of self-pity and thought “I really like peanut butter. It keeps me going every day!”

I started lightening a little. I told John how much I like peanut butter, and he smiled. He knew how depressed I was, having just been holding me as the tears came down.

Then I sprinkled cacao nibs on the peanut butter. “And the cacao nibs give me entertainment for my senses.” I spoke this aloud too.

A little more pleasure came through.

Then I arranged pear slices on top. “And the pear slices give me sweetness,” I smiled at him.

I sat down with my breakfast across from John and regarded my breakfast creation. The foundation of it all was a thick slice of John’s home baked cinnamon raisin bread. He keeps us supplied with fresh homemade gluten-free, vegan delicious bread. Reason # 7332 why I love him.

I looked into his eyes, and said, “And eating your bread is like eating love.”

I felt a shift as I did this. More lightness of being, less dread of feeling awful.

And I went through my day feeling good! I had energy for it all, and I enjoyed the interactions with people that I had. I got a good night’s sleep last night, and woke today feeling my usual cheerful self.

Shifting my perspective was the key. Gratitude, even about the most simple things, is such a powerful force. It doesn’t matter WHAT you’re grateful about, just that you feel the energy of gratitude, or appreciation.

What are you grateful for?

Quiet Ecstasy

I was greeted by this full rainbow as I stepped outside to get firewood for my stove one morning recently. It brought me to a standstill, and I just stood there, soaking in the beauty. What a gift, and what a way to start the day! Gratitude for the beauty of this earth.

I have learned to take moments like these and allow them to affect me deeply. They are occasions for a pause, for sinking into a reverie, for remembering that there is so much more to life than getting things done. Remembering that there is a world of light all around us and through us, and that it is accessible anytime we take the time to take a breath and plunge into quiet ecstasy.

It’s moments like these that keep me going, keep me inspired. Right now I’m inspired by my new group that starts next week. It’s called “Bliss: Dissolve into Universal Oneness”. It is about how couples can enhance each other’s spiritual expansion, access greater pleasure, and use that pleasure to open up to the same kind of ecstasy that I experienced with this rainbow.

I invite you to join me for a wonderful journey with a great group of explorers! Click this link for details.

Finding Peace

“Don’t you worry ’bout a thing!” — Stevie Wonder

I woke with this song on my mind yesterday. I was happy and content with my life. I wake like this every day these days. Life is full of love, sweetness, contentment, peace. I have a wonderful partner, great friends, satisfying work and enough money. And permeating all that satisfaction with my human life is a deep and abiding connection to the light — the ultimate reality.

It wasn’t always this way. I remember how different it was when I was in my 30’s. I was in a miserable relationship. When I woke every morning, the first thing I thought about was, “How am I going to pay my rent this month?” I would lie there worrying about all that every morning. I finally noticed that it was not really about paying my rent or my relationship, it was an all-pervading anxiety that something bad was going to happen.

It’s been years of work to find this peace. It’s come to me in a deeper and more lasting way only recently, with the spiritual connection that is blossoming in me more and more. I trust the universe. I trust that I will be held and cared for, and that everything is unfolding perfectly.

My work is reflecting this transformation. It’s easier and easier to help others find this peace and happiness for themselves because I can hold that energy as a guidepost for them to resonate with so much better now.

If you’d like to find this for yourself, I would love to support you. I have room in my schedule for one new client. If this resonates with you, let’s talk in a complimentary phone call to see if we’re a good fit for each other.

Click the link to set up the call.

2025 could be the best year of your life!

The Earth Moved!

The lovemaking was so intense that earth moved!

No, really, it did. Yesterday we felt an earthquake. Here in the Sierras of Northern California, that doesn’t happen often. I can count on one hand the number of times in the last 20 years that I’ve felt a tremor.

John and I were deeply into an intimate connection. I was trembling with lots of kundalini energy moving. I had been shaking for a while, which is not new for me — I’ve done that for years when I run a lot of energy. Suddenly we heard a strange sound and felt the shaking of my house. The next minute, an alert came on our phones about the earthquake. Fortunately, it was a minor shake here and there was no damage.

Pretty powerful, eh? Causing an earthquake with the strength of my shaking! (Just kidding!)

Today I woke energized and happy again. It had been a long dry spell with John and me. First he was very engaged with a project away from home and wasn’t here very much. Then just as he finished that, I got very busy with travels, being sick with a cold, a friend visiting for a week and a week-long spiritual intensive. I was feeling low energy and flattened when we got together again for the first time in what felt like forever. So much so that I considered canceling our date and taking a nap instead. But I drew upon the devotion that we carry together. One of our commitments is to nurture our relationship, and those connection times are the main way that we do it.

I’m so glad that we have that commitment and that we honored the devotion to our relationship. It energized me and changed my mood from low-level depression back to my usual cheery nature. Today I have a smile on my face and a new spring in my step.

Just a reminder — running energy is a really good idea!

If you’d like some support with that, I’d like to invite you to my new group Bliss: Dissolve into Universal Oneness, which begins January 10, 2025. In it, I will share practices and meditations that help you access this energy and use it to enliven yourself and your relationship. I’m opening this group to both couples and singles, with the invitation for singles being about developing a relationship to their inner lover.

For more information or to register, click here.

I would be so delighted to have you be a part of this group!

The Studious Tantrika

I’m an odd blend of a wild and sensual woman, a devoted spiritual practitioner, and Hermione from Harry Potter. I think this photo captures it all.

I bring all these facets of myself to my work. My scholarly pursuits have been focused upon sacred sexuality, cosmic wonders and enlightenment for more than 30 years. I teach sacred sexuality from my own experience. And I’ve spent the last 25 years with spirituality as the main focus of my life. (It’s been a focus for much longer than 25 years — my first dip into yoga was almost 50 years ago. But only the last 25 years have been mainly focused upon spirituality.)

Even though I can be quite studious, I believe that the best learning involves the body. For almost 50 years, I have explored the body through yoga, being a chiropractor for three years (plus all the schooling to do that!), breathwork, movement meditation and sacred sexuality. In my work with students and clients, I guide you into your body which paradoxically allows you to become bigger than your body — an infinite ever-expanding being merging with divine energies!

If you’d like a spiritual path that:
• delights you with your senses while remembering that you are more than your senses
• that gives you ways to align with energetic flows so you can merge with the universal flows
• shows you how to use that energy to manifest in the material world, knowing that it is only a game
• increases your enjoyment of this material plane while opening up a vast, ecstatic plane of existence that is beyond your wildest dreams

then I invite you to Bliss: Dissolve Into Universal Oneness. This is an online group for both couples and singles beginning January 10, 2025. It is designed for the advanced spiritual practitioner. For more info, click the link.

Stillness Within the Storm

“As the fires blend in sexual joy,
Enter that blessed place between the legs,
Embrace the holy energies shimmering there.”
— The Radiance Sutras, by Lorin Roche

John and I have a practice that we embed in our regular connection ceremonies. One of us will flip the pages of The Radiance Sutra and the other one will poke our finger into the flipping pages to select a sutra to focus upon for the day. The Radiance Sutras are a modern-day translation of the Vijnana Bhairava Tantra, an ancient spiritual teaching text. Only a few sutras are focused upon sexuality. It’s a wide range of pathways to spiritual connection.

I must admit, my first thought when I got this one was, “Oh, boy! It’s going to be a fun day!” I like feeling the shimmering joys. And yes, it was a fun day!

There was a moment when I felt a revelation. Let me tell you about it.

John was giving pleasure to me, and I was lying back and receiving. There was a lot of energy flowing. For most of my adult life, if I was in that much energy, I would have been very dramatic. Lots of wild movements and loud sounds. But this time, I remembered this sutra.

I got very still and focused upon the light between my legs. I could feel it flowing like a raging river. I sensed the bones of my pelvis as a gateway. I focused upon stillness and watching the energies flow through that gateway. I felt like a surfer must feel, balancing upon the wildness, staying focused in the moment. It was a wild ride within the stillness, which was within the wildness. (Inside and out were somewhat blended.)

Then a beautiful thing happened. I sensed my pelvic bones dissolving into the light. It was gradual, starting at the edges the way that water will wear away rock. I stayed still and calm as the river of light roared and my pelvis dissolved, until there was nothing left but light and flow. It felt delicious and expansive and awe-inspiring, like a reminder of what’s all around us and through us. Some call it God or many other names. I like Source, because I believe it’s where we come from when we incarnate and where we return when we die. But there are really no adequate words.

I’m in a delightful exploration of sacred sexuality, and I have been for many years. It is getting more and more spiritually expansive. I regularly have experiences like this, which are so profound and impactful that I am inspired to share what I’m learning. That’s why I’m starting Bliss: Dissolve into Universal Oneness. It’s an advanced spiritually-focused group for both couples and singles, using sacred sexuality as a pathway to spiritual expansion. I’m teaching from my own experience, drawing upon moments like I just described here. The group begins January 10, 2025.

If this calls to you, then I invite you to check out Bliss: Dissolve Into Universal Oneness. Click the link to find out more.

Divine Grace and Synchronicity

I want to share an experience I had recently with Divine Grace.

It started when I was at the breakfast table. I was sipping tea, and I remembered a meditation from the Radiance Sutras (a modern-day translation of the Vijnana Bhairava Tantra by Lorin Roche.) It was to imagine going into the space inside my head and then to imagine that space expanding infinitely in all directions. It’s quite powerful!

So I did that, and I rapidly went into the light. I was there for a few moments, and then I became aware of the teacup in my hand halfway to my mouth, and my elbow on the table. But I was still aware of the light, and I could hold both realms (the light and the material world) at the same time. It was a moment of revelation and of grace.

I lingered at the table for a while, savoring the glimpse I had received. Then I remembered that I had a mission that morning. I have a necklace, which I use as a pendulum, that I’ve worn next to my heart for 15-20 years. I had left it down at the lake the day before and I wanted to go retrieve it before my Zoom appointments for the day. I scolded myself a little for lallygagging and got going.

When I got to the lake I couldn’t find the pendulum. Bummer! I was disappointed to lose this necklace as I had a big connection with it. I kept searching around the place where I had left it, but no luck. I knew I should give up but I still kept looking.

Then a man came walking over the hill. We struck up a conversation and I told him that I was looking for my necklace. I looked down to search one last time, and the next thing I knew, he was holding out his hand with my pendulum in it. He had found it earlier and picked it up!

There was so much synchronicity in this encounter! If I hadn’t left late, if I hadn’t stayed longer than was reasonable while searching, I wouldn’t have met him. John had offered to go to the lake for me, and if he had, he may not have talked to this man at all, as he is more reserved with strangers than I am. Everything had to line up just right for this to happen!

I think that the experience of being in the light and the material world led me into a relaxed surrender into the flow of the universe. The universe is loving and friendly, and wants to support us. We just have to allow it to happen!

A Beach Wedding

Photo credit: Kevin Coughran, CapturedCupid.com

I had the great honor and privilege to officiate at a client’s wedding this spring. It was a beautiful day on the coast, and they wanted a wedding that was intimate, casual and spiritual. Right up my alley! That’s just who I am.

We did the ceremony on the beach, and she told me a few days later that it felt like I had built a container for their relationship that she could still feel. I blessed each of their chakras, setting an intention for their relationship with the energy of that chakra. It was simple yet powerful.

They asked me to wear white, otherwise I would have chosen a different color so that the bride got all the attention!

This was such a fun day that I have decided to make it a regular offering to others! For more info and more photos, click here.