I was greeted by this full rainbow as I stepped outside to get firewood for my stove one morning last winter. It brought me to a standstill, and I just stood there, soaking in the beauty. What a gift, and what a way to start the day! Gratitude for the beauty of this earth. IContinue reading “Quiet Ecstasy”
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The Earth Moved!
The lovemaking was so intense that earth moved! No, really, it did. Last winter we felt an earthquake. Here in the Sierras of Northern California, that doesn’t happen often. I can count on one hand the number of times in the last 20 years that I’ve felt a tremor. John and I were deeply intoContinue reading “The Earth Moved!”
Stillness Within the Storm
“As the fires blend in sexual joy,Enter that blessed place between the legs,Embrace the holy energies shimmering there.”— The Radiance Sutras, by Lorin Roche John and I have a practice that we embed in our regular connection ceremonies. One of us will flip the pages of The Radiance Sutra and the other one will pokeContinue reading “Stillness Within the Storm”
Bliss: Dissolve into Universal Oneness
I was shocked and also excited a few years ago, when my teacher told me that I had crossed into the first enlightenment, the enlightenment of the mind and a merging with Pure Awareness. This was something I had longed for and worked towards with my whole heart, yet I didn’t FEEL like I wasContinue reading “Bliss: Dissolve into Universal Oneness”
Quiet Ecstasy
I was greeted by this full rainbow as I stepped outside to get firewood for my stove one morning recently. It brought me to a standstill, and I just stood there, soaking in the beauty. What a gift, and what a way to start the day! Gratitude for the beauty of this earth. I haveContinue reading “Quiet Ecstasy”
A Guide to Men Who Want to Truly Make Love to a Women
(Things you might not know) The fact that you are reading this speaks volumes. I appreciate your desire to make love to a woman with more adeptness. You are a treasure indeed! There’s a very important point to remember when considering how to approach a woman. It’s something that you might not have considered before.Continue reading “A Guide to Men Who Want to Truly Make Love to a Women”
Happy Valentine’s Day!
Here’s wishing you a happy Valentine’s Day! I must confess, it’s not my favorite holiday. There is too much weight of expectations loaded onto one day. It’s a day when you “should” be happy, you “should” have sex, you “should” receive gifts from a beloved. It’s a miracle that anyone actually does that, what withContinue reading “Happy Valentine’s Day!”
How to Talk to a Partner About Doing Work Together
In the work that I do, helping people experience a more blissful relationship, I often find that one partner is more interested than the other in doing work with me. I recently had a conversation with a woman who wanted to work with me along with her husband, but she thought he would be resistantContinue reading “How to Talk to a Partner About Doing Work Together”
It Hasn’t Always Been Easy
If you’ve been seeing my posts then you know that I’m crazy in love with my partner John. And even though we are blissfully happy with each other, and even though I’ve taught sacred sexuality for 30 years, with around 15,000 client sessions, it hasn’t always been easy. There was a time a few yearsContinue reading “It Hasn’t Always Been Easy”
What If It Could Be Fun?
What if it could be fun? Luscious Loving doesn’t have to be a lot of work. In fact, it’s better if it’s fun. Things flow more easily, and we’re way more motivated by fun than by doing “work”. This is a message I got from someone who attended my last Luscious Loving intro evening withContinue reading “What If It Could Be Fun?”
Satya Lila 