Quiet Ecstasy

I was greeted by this full rainbow as I stepped outside to get firewood for my stove one morning last winter. It brought me to a standstill, and I just stood there, soaking in the beauty. What a gift, and what a way to start the day! Gratitude for the beauty of this earth. IContinue reading “Quiet Ecstasy”

The Earth Moved!

The lovemaking was so intense that earth moved! No, really, it did. Last winter we felt an earthquake. Here in the Sierras of Northern California, that doesn’t happen often. I can count on one hand the number of times in the last 20 years that I’ve felt a tremor. John and I were deeply intoContinue reading “The Earth Moved!”

Stillness Within the Storm

“As the fires blend in sexual joy,Enter that blessed place between the legs,Embrace the holy energies shimmering there.”— The Radiance Sutras, by Lorin Roche John and I have a practice that we embed in our regular connection ceremonies. One of us will flip the pages of The Radiance Sutra and the other one will pokeContinue reading “Stillness Within the Storm”

Bliss: Dissolve into Universal Oneness

I was shocked and also excited a few years ago, when my teacher told me that I had crossed into the first enlightenment, the enlightenment of the mind and a merging with Pure Awareness. This was something I had longed for and worked towards with my whole heart, yet I didn’t FEEL like I wasContinue reading “Bliss: Dissolve into Universal Oneness”

Quiet Ecstasy

I was greeted by this full rainbow as I stepped outside to get firewood for my stove one morning recently. It brought me to a standstill, and I just stood there, soaking in the beauty. What a gift, and what a way to start the day! Gratitude for the beauty of this earth. I haveContinue reading “Quiet Ecstasy”

The Studious Tantrika

I’m an odd blend of a wild and sensual woman, a devoted spiritual practitioner, and Hermione from Harry Potter. I think this photo captures it all. I bring all these facets of myself to my work. My scholarly pursuits have been focused upon sacred sexuality, cosmic wonders and enlightenment for more than 30 years. IContinue reading “The Studious Tantrika”

Stillness Within the Storm

“As the fires blend in sexual joy,Enter that blessed place between the legs,Embrace the holy energies shimmering there.”— The Radiance Sutras, by Lorin Roche John and I have a practice that we embed in our regular connection ceremonies. One of us will flip the pages of The Radiance Sutra and the other one will pokeContinue reading “Stillness Within the Storm”

A Guide to Men Who Want to Truly Make Love to a Women

(Things you might not know) The fact that you are reading this speaks volumes. I appreciate your desire to make love to a woman with more adeptness. You are a treasure indeed! There’s a very important point to remember when considering how to approach a woman. It’s something that you might not have considered before.Continue reading “A Guide to Men Who Want to Truly Make Love to a Women”

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Here’s wishing you a happy Valentine’s Day! I must confess, it’s not my favorite holiday. There is too much weight of expectations loaded onto one day. It’s a day when you “should” be happy, you “should” have sex, you “should” receive gifts from a beloved. It’s a miracle that anyone actually does that, what withContinue reading “Happy Valentine’s Day!”

Connection Ceremony

This pic is one my partner John took of me as we began our regular weekly connection ceremony. These are times we set aside to commune with each other and the divine. It’s the highlight of my week! And what keeps us glued together. Deep intimacy and fun certainly make a relationship flow more easily!Continue reading “Connection Ceremony”