Here’s wishing you a happy Valentine’s Day! I must confess, it’s not my favorite holiday. There is too much weight of expectations loaded onto one day. It’s a day when you “should” be happy, you “should” have sex, you “should” receive gifts from a beloved. It’s a miracle that anyone actually does that, what with all the expectations. Expectations are not an aphrodisiac!
I remember years ago being very miserable on Valentine’s Day, even though I was in a good relationship, thinking that there was something wrong if my partner and I didn’t make love. Thinking that it meant we were deficient in some fundamental way, that our relationship was doomed. Eventually I came to see that the burden of expectations was in the way, and I lightened up with my rigid ideas of what Valentine’s Day should be. I’ve been much happier since!
But there is one way that Valentine’s Day can be useful. It can serve as a reminder to you, if you are really not happy with the state of your love life. If you have ongoing problems connecting with your beloved, or if you wish you could love yourself more, or you feel shut off from your sexual energy, Valentine’s Day can illuminate your dissatisfaction and help you get motivated to take action.
I’m here for you if you want to take action. You can start with a complimentary Sexual Communion Gateway Session. I will help you get clear about your challenges, create a vision of what you want instead, and give you some recommendations to get started on your path. Just click the link to find out more. I’d love to be of service to you.
Satya Lila 