Third-Purpose Relationship

My third eye is shining!

This pic is from an afternoon John and I spent together recently. We had just been in a deep meditation, together connecting with the geometries of light that surround our bodies and are the gateway to the ultimate oneness of love and light. This was while taking a walk afterward. (Always good to ground yourself after an experience like this!)

My teacher Sohra says that there are three possible purposes that characterize a relationship. First-purpose is pleasure. This is something like a hook-up or friends with benefits. Mutual pleasure is the goal, and no further involvement is necessary.

The second-purpose relationship is about bonding. It could be a deep heart connection between the two of you. It could be about raising a family.

Third-purpose relationships are based upon a shared path of spiritual evolution. Sexual union is used for creating energetic experiences that further your spiritual development, and you walk the spiritual path together. John and I have a third purpose relationship. We are both deeply committed to our spiritual growth and development, and we are committed to doing it together.

We do regular weekly connection ceremonies, which usually consist of a series of activities. First, some kind of movement or stretching to unwind the body and make it open and available for energy to move through. Next, a joint meditation where we connect with each other and practice various things that move us closer to the light. Then a grounding walk around our land, to integrate the experience of that meditation into the body, and to connect with Mother Earth. Often when we return from the walk we get into wonderful lovemaking. Then after a sweet quiet time holding each other, we go to make dinner together, which is another way of loving for us.

Our lovemaking is often wild and energetic, raising the energy and circulating it through our bodies. This is sometimes quite visionary for me. I see our bodies overlaid with geometrical patterns which seem to me to be patterns of the universe that we are conforming to. I experience us as much bigger than our bodies, connected with All-That-Is.

It’s been my experience in this relationship with John that by choosing third-purpose, we didn’t say no to the other two purposes. We still have the pleasure of the first purpose, and the bonding of the second. But the real juice is in the third purpose.

I love having it all!

Perhaps these words are resonating with you. Perhaps you want this for yourself. I do hope to inspire you to know how much bliss is possible — and how much growth! If you feel yourself called to a third-purpose relationship, I’d love to guide and support you. Let me offer you a complimentary Sexual Communion Gateway session to take the first step. Click the link to find out more and to book your appointment.

In love and light,
Satya